“Cancel Khotoba Outings” A Content Creator’s Take On Engagement After Parties Had People Talking

Is an engagement party really a celebration if you have to pay just to show up? The internet has been buzzing with debates about khotoba outings—those after-parties where guests are asked to chip in for the fun. Some say it’s just a trend, others think it’s a sign of changing times, but everyone seems to have an opinion!

People questioned the outing trend

A content creator sparked the conversation by asking, “What’s the deal with these outings? Why should I pay to celebrate your engagement?” She pointed out that the same handful of venues keep popping up, making every event feel like a rerun of Alf Mabrouk. The only thing that changes is the happy couple! Guests are left wondering if they’re really celebrating or just paying for a ticket to the same old party.

 

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Money became the main issue

Many admitted that the real reason they skip these outings is the cost. One woman joked, “If I say I can’t come, it’s because of money, not anything else!” The price tag for attending multiple outings in a month can add up fast, especially when the experience barely changes. Some guests even poked fun at late arrivals, saying, “You think you’ll show up at nine or ten? That’s way too late!”

Opinions split on how to celebrate

  1. Some agreed with the content creator, calling the trend “unacceptable” and saying it’s not fair to expect guests to pay.
  2. Others liked the idea, saying outings are a way to celebrate with close friends and family only. They argued that if you can’t afford it or don’t want to go, just skip it and let the couple enjoy their day.

In the end, the creator encouraged couples to rethink their celebrations and find more thoughtful, guest-friendly ways to mark their special moments. Whether you’re team “cancel the outing” or “bring on the party,” one thing’s for sure: everyone wants to feel included—without breaking the bank!

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